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woman.md

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 *see also [incel](incel.md)/[volcel](volcel.md)*
 
+{ Here is a small preface to clear up some confusion about this section and the whole article: this is not an incel's angry rant about how women are evil and how it's their fault that you don't get laid. Too many people on the Internet vent their frustration this way and it is understandable, but this is not one of these rants, ok? I am not an angry teenager raging he can't get sex. I gladly and openly admit it's by MY OWN "fault" (or now rather a choice) that I am not getting laid, I know what one has to do to get laid and I don't want to pay that price, and I am not sexually frustrated either, I really have no issue with this situation. What I am trying to write here is purely experience I've gathered and advice I want to give, i.e. I am NOT aiming to take revenge on women and I am NOT blaming women, I am NOT angry at them, I merely try to explain how women work because this is something that one discovers the hard way after a long time, it is valuable information obtained through a lot of pain. ~drummyfish }
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 Any girl that has ever seen the [Internet](internet.md) is spoiled beyond grave, avoid these for any cost. If you seriously want to live with a woman, it's best to consider diving into the jungle and find some half ape indigenous girl not touched by capitalism yet, those may be unironically cool.
 
+If you really really want a woman, you have to accept one basic fact and behave in accordance with it: **women are incapable of romantic love**. This is a fact very hard to accept by young men, but it really is so -- if you don't believe it (and you 100% don't), you will discover it yourself. This is not to say that a women feels nothing in a relationship, but as a man you just have to realize a woman does NOT feel the same romantic feelings you feel towards her EVEN IF she looks like she does -- she WILL mimic the feelings because YOU, the man, need this for the relationship, she will behave so that to you it seems like she is feeling great romantic love, and she probably is feeling something -- most likely even believing it's the real love -- but it is NOT the same thing you are feeling. The truth is woman is calculating (not always consciously), she doesn't love YOU but rather what you PROVIDE for her, i.e. usually [money](money.md), security, protection, genes for her offspring, possibly social status etc. Again, this is not to say a woman is a monster incapable of love -- she can for example feel a much stronger (absolutely [selfless](selflessness.md)) love than a man for her children, but NOT for the partner. It's all evolution: a man's role is to spread his seed as much as possible (that's why he may be cheating) and protect women (that's why he loves her so much), whereas a woman is supposed to take care of children (that's why she before anything looks for the best partner that will ensure the best for her children). Women learn to externally behave in ways that are compatible with you, i.e. she will reward you with affection for what you provide her, but please realize that INTERNALLY she works absolutely differently than you, men and women are different creatures. Even if a man cheats on his woman, he will often love her so much he would die for her, but the woman will never do the same, in fact she will leave you at the first opportunity that allows her to safely get a better partner, no matter how many roses and love letters you bring her. It is similar to cat and dog love: a cat will cuddle with you and behave cute, but it NEVER feels the same kind of love a [dog](dog.md) feels towards you: the cat behaves like it does because it gets something out of you; it will leave you if it finds a better place to live and it will never miss you. In emergency a dog will defend you to his death, a cat will run away and leave you to your fate. Once again this is not to say a cat is necessarily a bitch and an evil animal, you only have to take its personality for what it is and behave accordingly, you can never treat cat like you would treat a dog.
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 Jerking off is the easiest solution to satisfying needs connected to fucking women. If you absolutely HAVE to get laid, save up for a prostitute, that's the easiest way and most importantly won't ruin your life. Or decide to become [gay](gay.md), that may make matters much easier. You may also potentially try to hit on some REAL ugly girl that's literally desperate for sex, but remember it has to be the ugliest, fattest landwhale that you've ever seen, it's not enough to just find a 3/10, that's still a league too high for you that will reject you unless you pay her. Also consider that if you don't pay for sex, there is a 50% chance you will randomly get sued for rape sometime during the following 30 year period. If you want a girlfriend, then rather don't. The sad truth is that to make a woman actually "love" you, as much as one is capable of doing so, you HAVE TO be an enormously evil ass that will beat her to near death, abuse her, rape her and regularly cheat on her -- that's how it is and that's what every man has to learn the hard way -- as we know, the older generation's experience cannot be communicated by words, the young generation always thinks it is somehow different and will never listen. Sadly this is simply how it is -- even if you think you have found the "special one", the one that's different, the intelligent introverted one that's nice and friendly to you, nope, she is still a woman, she won't love you unless you're a murderer dickass beating her daily (NOTE: we don't advocate any violence, our advice here is to simply avoid women). If you think getting close to her, being nice and listening to her will make her love you, you're going to hit a brick wall very hard -- this road only ever leads to a friendzone 100% of the times, you will end up carrying her purse while she's shopping without her letting you touch her ever. If you just want a nonsexual girl friend, then it's fine, but you will never make a girlfriend this way. This is not the girl's fault, she is programmed like that, blaming the girl here would be like blaming a child for overeating on candy or blaming a cat for torturing birds for fun; and remember, THE GIRL SUFFERS TOO, she is literally attracted only to those who will abuse her, it is her curse. If anyone's to blame for your suffering, it is you for being so extremely naive -- always remember you are playing with fire. You may still get a girl to stay with you or even marry you and have kids if you have something that will make her want to be with you despite not loving you, which may include being enormously rich, being so braindead to have million subscribers on YouTube, having an enormous 1 meter long dick or literally giving up all dignity and succumbing to being her lifelong slave dog doing literally everything she says when she says it, but that will still get you at most 4/10 and is probably not worth it. { From my experience this also goes for trans girls somehow, so tough luck. Maybe it's so even for gay men in the woman role. ~drummyfish } All in all rather avoid all of this and pay for a prostitute, buy some sex toys, watch porn and stay happy <3
 
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